Indeed, happiness is not a "thing" that will be reduced when given, but it was like light is getting "given" to increase brightness. Wisely said, the candles of others, we will not remove wax, but we will get more light.
Who is the most closely? Who is eligible we give happiness? For a man, other than both parents, then his wife is the most important given that happiness. If the wife is on the side is not happy, we can not hope other people happy. And most important, if the wife is also a sign of suffering which we also suffer. Remember, we will not be happy as long as the people on our side is not happy.
What is the first step to happy wife? Yes, first, appreciate his presence. Really feel that he is the most precious gift of God. Matchmaking meeting in the hands of God, thus he is a special tribute from his friends for the adventure of our lives throughout the world. God answers our wives are always in our prayers mohonkan.
Remember that the most precious thing in our homes is not furniture, non-electronic equipment, computers or other antiques. The most valuable is a human - that our wives or husbands. That "human capital" we value the right more than ever.
But, whether we have to appreciate more than a wife or husband of valuables in our homes?
Unfortunately, the other thought the other felt. Try to think about, how many husbands who are more concerned about the feelings of the wife compared to 'condition' the car. Such as prolonged cough wife can not hear. "Cough" a small car quickly sent to a workshop to immediately "cured".
That has not been calculated yet eye fishing every weekend to play with a rod and bait, but let the children and wives lonely at home. Or the wife who is in love with the jewelry and antiques, managed and supervised day and night, while her husband left without were heard expressions of emotion and heart.
When the cars 'quirky' little sounds, quickly carried to the workshop, improved machinery, ditune repeat her sounds. But the wife of a cough, painful and swollen left ... reason, it is customary, old body.
This does not count the 'workaholic' - work day, night, holidays and breaks do not know ... When asked why so busy? He answered, to the wife. In fact, he worked up to the level ignores wife. Curiously enough, there's no time to earn money up to enjoy it. If the money is accumulated, health has been compromised, the household is shattered, their wives have been neglected.
Some ask, How can we appreciate our spouse.
God willing, when there is a will there is a way. The World will provide a way for people who have a goal. They say, love, romance and love flow like water, always know which direction it will flow.
Start by looking at the view you ... may face our wives have wrinkles, but the taste may be half "tangle" think it's because our common difficulties. Perhaps a head full of gray hair have our husband, but the graying of the "landmark" building homes and sacrifice of our family.
That the eyes of the heart in its name. If it was early on love, our view from the eyes down to the heart. But now after a long time together, we must be more noble view. Not from the eyes down to the liver, but is from the heart "download" to the eye. We see not a "body" but the gratitude. We view non-veins, bones and meat again ... but a genuine and real - love, compassion, love, caring, friendly, fun, sorrow, failure, success, sacrifice, suffering - a sketch in her married life history with us!
From the eyes of faith that gave birth to the attitudes and actions. Love is verb - love is action. Says the poet when already love, like spin-cumulus clouds to form decorative wife in the chest, like a moon to be a beacon of friends, the sun as the rays of the grief and nestapanya ... Ah, we would not have to teach the way when is love. Because the love is already burning desire.
Maybe the rich man returned with a ring to honor the wife's jewels. Or just take a mango farmers to eat with the "queen". Labour welcomed back with a smile and handed sweat sip of cold water and happier wife certainly appreciated by a millionaire who was greeted at the door villanya but only by an aide. That made his miraculous love of God, it can only be enjoyed by a good heart. It's too expensive. Diamonds, gems will not be able to buy love!
Appreciate a while it was still in front of our eyes. Similarly, scholars and poets are always messages. Unfortunately, we were always brief glance. Something that is 'too' close, sometimes more difficult to see clearly. Wife in front of, not appreciated.
Research shows that men in America spend more time watching TV than talking to your wife. Here the very least, three hours watching TV together without speaking a word. Husband and wife are busy serving their own mind even sitting only a few inches later.
In fact, even when far away sometimes too stingy to ask the news. If you sit far apart, air time with friends sms more than wives. No news is a good news. So always, feel in my heart. But when a wife or husband attacked "ill" - say up to lose the ability to speak and move, it was then that we cry because they were not able to hear his voice again. Only then sat beside the hospital bed, staring at our helpmate eyes flashing, without words, without sound ...
Life is too short. Live only once. I went right back. Lost, may grow more ... But not everything will grow back. will the lost parents change? will the children, wives, husbands who 'go' ... go back?
So, appreciate them for everything is still there. Go back to the house with warm, spread salam, Spreads smile. Maybe tomorrow, you do not 'go' or no longer his faithful waiting in the back door. Maybe you 'go' or he is 'go'.
Appreciate life and life with affection and love. We will not be happy, as long as the people on our side is not happy!
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